Hello there...
Pada enrty kali ni, saya nak ulaskan sedikit tentang kepercayaan dalam perhubungan.
Seperti yang kita tahu, kepercayaan itu sangat penting dalam memastikan perhubungan berjalan dengan lancar. Bukanlah bermaksud dengan adanya kepercayaan, perhubungan kita takkan pernah diselitkan dengan perselisihan faham, pertelingkahan dan pergaduhan. Hubungan mana yang tak pernah mengalami konflik walaupun hanya sedikit. Sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit, inikan pula pasangan kekasih/suami isteri.
Memang tidak dinafikan sangat sukar untuk mempercayai satu sama lain. Maklumlah...manusia ini sangat suka berbohong. Tetapi berusahalah untuk mempercayai pasangan kita kerana mereka takkan berani membohongi orang yang mereka sayangi. Mungkin juga ada yang membohongi orang yang dia sayangi. Maybe dia ada alasan tertentu untuk berbuat demikian.
Kalau pembohongan terjadi antara kita, andainya 'terkantoi', bincanglah elok-elok dan janganlah mengambil keputusan yang terburu-buru. Sebab keputusan yang kita buat dalam keadaan diri kita yang diselubungi kemarahan selalunya bukanlah keputusan yang terbaik. Siapa yang tidak sakit hati bila dibohongi kan. Tetapi cuba sebaik mungkin untuk bertenang dan berbincang seelok-eloknya. Beri peluang untuk kedua pihak untuk menerangkan setiap satu permasalahan yang timbul.
Jangan terlalu cemburu buta. Perasaan cemburu yang melampau membuatkan ada segelintir orang yang mengongkong kehidupan harian pasangan mereka. Mahu berjalan-jalan bersama kawan-kawan sama jantina pun tidak boleh. Adakah itu sayang sehingga mengongkong sedemikian rupa? Untuk waktu yang singkat mungkin juga pasangan korang dapat bertahan dengan sikap mengongkong korang tu. Tapi untuk tempoh yang lama, entahlah apa akan terjadi. Kesabaran manusia ada batasnya. Sayang tahap mana pun, ada masanya ia akan mencapai tahap maksima di mana pasangan korang takkan bertahan lagi.
Tidak perlu kita mengongkong mereka terlampau sangat. Cukup kita melarang mereka daripada melakukan perkara-perkara yang tidak elok. Andai mereka ingin keluar bersama kawan-kawannya sekali-sekala, apalah salahnya. Kalau benarlah dia menyanyangi kita, dia akan ingat kita ke mana pun dia pergi. Mak saya pernah pesan, dalam perhubungan janganlah kita cemburu buta.
Ok. That's all from me. It's my point of view. Mungkin lain orang, lain pula pendapatnya. Terpulanglah... :)
:: Kepercayaan @ Trust ::
:: Burger? ::
Hye there...
I just finish eating my burger. It's not a burger that i bought from the stall. It's my homemade burger. Yummy! I can put a lot of chilli sauce and mayonis on my burger, as many as i can. It's just a simple burger, but it taste delicious. Want me to share my recipe?
Here it is :
- Bun
- Fresh green lettuce
- Butter
- Mayonis
- Chilli sauce
- Hamburg meat (chicken/beef)
Steps:
- Cut bun into two pieces.
- Preheat a bun and hamburg meat until it's surfaces become brownish in color.
- Pour the chilli sauce and mayonis on both side of the surface the bun.
- Put the fresh green lettuce on top and bottom of the bun.
- Pour the mayonis.
- Finally, put on the hamburg meat.
- Done! Enjoy your simple dish.
Here my burger looks like :
:: 12.12.12 ::
It's 12.12.12 today. Most of my friends at FB update their status and mention about that date. It's a nice date but nothing special about it for me. That date seems so special but there is nothing special happening. Quiet bored to see everybody update about "12.12.12". But it's their matter. Nothing to do with me. Just let it be. I also do mention about it on my status update. Haha...but I just say that, there is nothing special about today. But for sure, I really miss someone.
However, it's a nice date for a wedding day. It's easy to remember our big day. Sweet moment on a sweet date. Nice.... By the way, today is my friend's wedding day. But I can't attend the wedding ceremony because it's too far away from my place. Hope he will enjoy his wedding day and happily ever after.
Wedding...Can't wait for my own wedding day. It's gonna be the most sweet moment for me. But it's still too early to think about marriage. Too many things to do. Who cares when will it be.... It's all in HIS hand. Just follow the flows. :)
Talking about marriage make me miss my sweetheart so much. We are so far away from each other. But distance doesn't matter if we do love each other with all our heart. Just keep patient while waiting for the dream comes true. If we're meant to be together, we will be together. Nothing can separate us.
Okay! That's all for now. Take care... :)
:: Merry Christmas & Happy New Year ::
It's Sunday, and have nothing to do. So bored stay at home and do nothing. I have tried to do my Statistics for Biology tutorial i can't do it. It's so hard. I can't understand it. Final exam is around the corner. How can i manage to score in that subject? hurm...The final exam will be start in early January next year.
By the way, Christmas is around the corner too. I'm not able to celebrate it with my family. I just spend my Christmas at Kuching. Never mind. Just sacrifice a bit because we will have our semester break in January. Directly after our examination finish.
Seems like i don't have any present for this year. Haha. So sad. Never mind, i will buy myself a present just like what Mr.Bean did. Haha.
A few days left before we enter 2013. Wishes for new year :
- Have a better academic result.
- Have a better life.
- Stay healthy.
- Become more mature.
- .........................
There are so many things that i wish for. I really hope I can realize it. I hold it all onto HIS hand. HE know what the best for us. Sometimes, we doesn't get what we want because we actually doesn't deserved it. God gives us what we deserved, not what we want.
That's all. Bubye.
:: We never know it ::
My friends on FB keep talking about my bf's friends that just passed away this few days. I don't even know them well. I just know that girl through FB while the other guy i don't even know him at all. They are involved in a road accident. There are four of them in that car. Two of them are dead while two of them are safe. It's happen around 11pm on their way back from Bintulu. It's raining that night. They are hit by a Hilux. Condolence to both of their family who have passed away. I'm might not know you both, but i feel sympathy to both of them. That news really shocked me.
That is why we should prepare from now on. We don't even know when will God take our life back. Start our day with a prayer so that God will watching over us the whole day. Even if something bad happen to us, but still it will not that bad because God is there to protect us. Pray first before we start our long distance journey. We never know what gonna happen during our journey.
Besides, we can also pray for our beloved one so that God will watching over them too. In case that they forgot to pray for themselves. Just believed that God will protect us if we do believe in Him. It didn't means that God never protect those who didn't pray to Him, and those who pray to Him definitely will be safe. Even if we pray but we have no faith, it's useless. It's only working when we pray with faith.
That's why I always get worry when my beloved one or my family having their long journey. I will pray for them so that they arrived safely. I will worried if I didn't hear any news from him from time to time.
We should prepare ourselves in whatever situation because we never know what gonna happen. Drive carefully so that we can avoid anything bad happen. even if we involved in any accident, it will not be that bad. We still can control it. Just remember all those that loves us. Just imagine how does they feel if something bad happen to us. We can't avoid death. Yes, that;s true. But we still can make an effort to avoid it to happen earlier.
:: Mini Bazaar ::
Hye there....semalam kami ada buka mini bazaar yang bertapak di ruang legar FSS(Fakulti Sains Sosial), Unimas. Kami buka gerai yang berasaskan aiskrim dan buah-buahan. Gerai kami ialah "FRUUZY". Kami ada menjual rojak aiskrim, roti bakar, roti Gardenia, cola float dan ribena sprite.